Tips for the bride to be, when shopping for the dress of her dreams

"Do you take this dress, to have and to own, to take out a loan to buy, to look upon in photos 20 years from now and all the days of your life?" Uhh…can I think about it?

If this sounds like you as a bride, you're not alone. Don't worry. Here are a few tips that might help.

• Look at bridal magazines if you don't have a style in mind. They're practically a picture Bible for brides, and they're chock full of good tips. Cut out samples of dresses to take to the boutique with you.

• Consider your body type. A goddess-style dress can puff out in the front making you appear somewhat maternal. But, a ball gown or A-line dress will emphasize the smallest part of your body. Try on one of each style.

• Be aware of what you want to disguise. Whether it's a scar, a rose tattoo, or just your hips, let the attendant know what you want to cover up.


"Do you take this dress, to have and to own, to take out a loan to buy, to look upon in photos 20 years from now and all the days of your life?" Uhh…can I think about it?

If this sounds like you as a bride, you're not alone. Don't worry. Here are a few tips that might help.

• Look at bridal magazines if you don't have a style in mind. They're practically a picture Bible for brides, and they're chock full of good tips. Cut out samples of dresses to take to the boutique with you.

• Consider your body type. A goddess-style dress can puff out in the front making you appear somewhat maternal. But, a ball gown or A-line dress will emphasize the smallest part of your body. Try on one of each style.

• Be aware of what you want to disguise. Whether it's a scar, a rose tattoo, or just your hips, let the attendant know what you want to cover up.

• The attendant can't read your mind. If you don't tell her your budget or style, she can only guess. Let her know your wishes, and be patient.

• Take a second pair of eyes. Whether it's your mother or your best friend, you'll want another opinion. However, don't allow them to choose the dress for you.

• Take a camera. Sometimes you can't trust a mirror. Taking pictures of the gowns from different angles gives you a more realistic perspective.

• Even if it's gorgeous, do not buy a dress that is terribly uncomfortable. Sure, you're only going to be wearing it for one day, but you don't want to be miserable, or worse, pass out.

•Consider your options. You are no longer limited to a white dress. Try ivory. Instead of a traditional veil, try on a jeweled headband.

• When you go to get the dress altered, wear the shoes that you plan to wear at the wedding. That way, the hem of the dress will be the correct length.

• If possible, order the dress six months to a year before your wedding date. This allows plenty of time for alterations or addressing any problems.

• Above all, just have fun, and enjoy being waited on. It's a rare experience.

By Jessie Childers